I may not have all the experience that many have on this site, but I feel that I do have enough insight to try to help you. To be honest, you really need to get to know the lady you're wanting to talk to. My suggestion, if you really want to go that extra distance, is go for it! But you definitely need to be careful about who you choose. Contact information isn't cheap, and it can come back to haunt you. But if you are confident in your lady, it's definitely worth the price! But whatever you do... even if you are talking to her somewhere other than this site, make sure to show her the utmost respect. If you don't, you will lose her, and the money you paid, very quickly.