I HAVE RECIEVED THE WELL WRITEN AND YOU HAVE SHARED YOUR LIVES.
THE QUESTION IS? IN your culture the man makes the first attempt at propositioning the girl.
Please may I enquire the that a man presents himself in his profile so he is asking
Please look at me if you are interested. If I was physically there, I as a gentleman would apologise first and assist you in any means that you require at the time. Not to start a permanent relationship, yet to present myself. Here on the site FIND BRIDE, we have to present ourselves in a profile.
If the man ever dreams that he is the one making the choice he is totally misled. Only if he pays then the (women)girl has no choice. As in any materialistic way.
To use one example. As we should know that we are two halves of one whole. He has the brawn, physical power.
The girl has the incubation power, nurturing power.
That is where the English says comes from behind every successful man is a more successful girl(wife).
Can we think the answer to that is simple from a man point but not done. If he has love he will know from his heart what the girl needs and the girl from the heart will know what he needs . THE ONE IS THEN CREATED.
After that then, please understand and think. Once the one is created the all becomes so clear. If the family do not respect the love one now then they have never respected the half. Disrespect to one of the halves is disrespecting the now whole one. Here comes cupids arrow when shot into the heart
That is now two halves the is now a whole one heart both feel the pain.
So all, family, community or any one OR THING that has a negative effect to the one half, been either the man or the girl is negative to the LOVE WHOLE.
The girl supports the man and makes him so much stronger, the maN defends the girl making her
So much more secure.
NEXT QUESTION SEX?
Sex without emotion is raping, abuse, I am saying this from a man point of view.
Sex without emotion is curcumins to a material need, that from a women point of view is selling one self.
Even a simple thing as shopping, the girl want to make the man proud and please him. The man want to make the girl proud. So we have both giving which is love.
Man if he has many halves he can never be a love whole one as there is a half with lots of other halves. Girls the same infidelity is never a whole love one. WHAT THE MAN HAS NOT THE GIRL HAS AND WHAT THE GIRL HAS NOT THE MAN HAS. THE MARRIAGE IS THE TWO HALFS BECOMING ONE.