If you list all the things a woman owes in life, from a bowl of soup to the duty of raising grandchildren, you get an endless list of debts to her family, friends, relatives and the whole world.
And this sense of debt is so binding on women that very quickly she feels like a "workhorse" in the arena of life, and at the end of the race - "exhausted nag", crawling to the edge of her life.
And if you ask yourself: "what do you owe yourself?", you realize that you have long ago run out of strength and desire, any motivation or inspiration to think about yourself.
And if you squeeze that list out of yourself, it will still be tied to other people's expectations:
To marry well, to have children, to take care of their family's health, to always be wearing makeup, with dyed hair, in modern clothes.
And no matter how old you are, always be an interesting conversationalist, be able to use the latest Internet technology, be active in social networks and use trendy gadgets, so that your children do not feel that you smell of the old 20th century.
Let's stop and look at the world from a different perspective.
Let's say you don't owe anyone anything.
And you can allow yourself to be not good enough, not perfect enough, not beautiful enough for everyone around you...
Allow yourself to owe only yourself, and only one thing: to be happy!
That's who you have to prove to that you are beautiful in your own right? And who do you owe it to to match your clothes to your face? For men? Girlfriends?
I know for a fact that I don't need the opinions of others about me..I've done a lot of rethinking and deep introspection. And now I do things the way I feel...and I am the happiest woman in the world