I have been on this site for 16 months now,... and I don't know if I'm closer to finding my soul mate,..... or I just haven't found her yet.
Like Mike ec48,.. I thought I found the (one),.. but still always held myself back because of what she wrote,.... or didn't.
If someone is confessing their undying love for a man they have never met face to face,... well,... that kind of put up a red flag to me. I talked to one lady for over a year and she would write how I was the best man in the world for her and things she would do to me in the bed room,.... bla,.. bla,.. BLA!
Most of the time she never responded if I talked about my day. ( RED FLAG!) On her birthday I made a cake,... placed red roses around it,... took a photo of it and sent it to her telling her that even we are not together I wanted to celebrate her special day. (Nothing. Didn't even mention it. RED FLAG!)
And have you men ever noticed,... that sometimes when a women sends a letter,... that it looked like it was wrote in a way that it could be sent to 50 other men and just the name was changed? I have seen it. One lady sent me a letter and instead of dear Mojo,.... it said [NAME]. Another time I got a letter,.. and the photo she sent me wasn't even her!! It was a photo of this other woman who was writing to me!!

Now,.. I do believe that there are REAL WOMEN here looking for love. But because of all the crap I have seen,.... it is going to take longer to sort them out. I don't know how many women write and want me to send flowers, candy, or something. (How do I know there not asking many other men for the same thing?) I am NOT made of money,... and even if I was,... I wont waist it on someone I may never meet.
Some will even say: " I looked at your profile and I think we would make a good couple!"
Yea. Sure you did. I guess you missed the part where it said "NO 19 TO 26 YEARS OLD!!? NO I DONT WANT TO START A FAMILY?

So guys,..... there are special women on this site. Some are real,... and some are just leading you on. Take your time,... look for clues,..... and don't believe everything you read.