Modern society is saturated with stereotypes, and one of them is the expectation that a woman should have children before reaching the age of 30. However, in real life, there are many reasons why some women decide to put off motherhood. In this blog, we explore factors that can cause shame in women who have not given birth before age 30 and discuss why such shame is unfair and unfounded.

Change of priorities:
In the modern world, women are increasingly striving for education, career growth and self-realization. They may have high ambitions and desire to achieve certain goals before they decide to become mothers. By postponing childbirth until the age of 30, they can focus on building a career and financial stability, which is a perfectly reasonable decision.

Search for a partner and stable relationship:
For many women, it is important to find the right partner and build a stable relationship before they decide to have children. Finding and establishing such relationships can take time, especially in today's fast paced life. Postponing childbirth until age 30 may be the result of a woman's desire to find a partner with whom she feels ready and confident in future parenthood.

Physiological and medical factors:
Physiologically, women have the best chance of a healthy pregnancy and successful motherhood when their bodies are fully prepared for it. Every woman is different and has her own genetic makeup, and some may take longer to be physically ready for childbirth. The later age of the mother may also be related to a number of medical factors, and women may decide to delay childbirth until the age of 30 in order to ensure that their own health and the health of the unborn child is taken care of.

Psychological and emotional aspects:
Becoming an adult woman involves many psychological and emotional aspects. Some women feel that they need time for self-development, self-determination and preparation for motherhood. They may seek stability and confidence in their abilities before they decide to have a child. These factors play an important role in the decision to have children and may delay childbirth until later in life.

The shame associated with the fact that a woman did not give birth before the age of 30 is unfair and unfounded. Every woman has the right to her own path and her own decisions regarding her life and motherhood. Instead of shame, society should respect and support women who choose to delay childbirth until later in life in the name of personal growth, stability and self-determination.