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First date: 5 secrets to success
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1. Be real
Remember ads? A girl comes on a date and accidentally hears a young man waiting for her say to someone on the phone: “No, I haven’t found it yet. After all, I'm looking for the real one! The girl quickly changes her appearance, becomes "real" and makes an excellent impression on the young man. Who would have thought that everything in life is exactly like that?
2. Smile Sincerely
The smile of the Mona Lisa will not suit us. Sometimes men fall into a strange stupor from such "female tricks" with a claim to the notorious mystery. A Hollywood smile with all 32 teeth will not suit us either. Psychologists have long explained why. The only requirement for your smile: it must be sincere. You ask, how can you smile at a stranger, and even sincerely? Just think about how sincere you are now! You are sincerely glad that you came to the meeting, and here he is, already waiting for you, and you are really happy to see him, aren't you?

And I’ll tell you one more secret: there is nothing worse than a polite smile on a first date. Think for yourself, what can she say to your chosen one? Personally, I see something like this interpretation: “Well, it’s very nice, of course, that you came, but I’m so polite, and that’s why I smile at you so politely. I'm sure you already liked me, because I'm so polite.
3. Keep it simple
Take things lightly. Experience shows that a person who is too fixated on the result, the chances of achieving it are sharply reduced. It's inexplicable, but it's a fact. Although, perhaps, the whole thing is in excessive tension. She doesn't decorate. And our task is to present ourselves in such a way that a person wants to see you again. Or even more than once!

Men love girls with whom it is easy to breathe, with whom you don’t have to build anything out of yourself, follow your every word, gesture, in other words, strain. Don't stress men out on the first date. After all, if they were in search, then someone
4. Don't be afraid to ask
But ask about what is really important or interesting to you. Psychologists say that people love to talk about themselves. And it's a sin not to use it! Seeing your genuine interest, the man cheers up and becomes more calm. Before you, he already strained them very much!

5. Believe in yourself
This rule should become an axiom for you. Self-love, adequate self-esteem and self-confidence are the main components of your future success. And not just on the first date. These qualities form your inner core of a person who is stable in life. And they are the basis of your charisma and attractiveness. If you are the happy owner of this magnificent combination, feel free to set a date. The date will be successful!

And in conclusion, I would like to say: read articles, study trends, ask for advice, look for information. But first, listen to yourself! Your heart, your intuition will never let you down.

Be simple, real, sincere, ask, smile, believe in yourself!
Good luck and big love
Veronica

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