Psychologists answered this question.
As psychologists assure, women do not fall in love immediately, but gradually, just as gradually they "let go" of their feelings. But men can fall in love quickly, literally, "at first sight." And how do they experience separation?

The men, at first glance, look as if they are not bothered at all by what is happening. In fact, it does not confirm their indifference to parting with you.
Outwardly, the guy may not show any emotions, as if he doesn't care, complete indifference, while in his soul he is a "storm" that is not inferior to women's suffering.

Their soul is prone to such emotions:
* Discomfort. Every man likes to be where he is comfortable and cozy. When the comfort zone is destroyed, a feeling of discomfort is manifested. Regardless of the desire of the heart and mind, a man cannot get rid of the memory of his "favorite girl" or, even, of the connection with the lover who fell into his soul. The smallest things will remind of the girl: a pillow, a toothbrush, a mug - everything she used, touched.

*Melancholy. When the partners felt sincere feelings for each other, the man's longing for his girlfriend will be very strong. Sadness will be associated with memories of her voice, smell and body. He will be inclined to the strongest desire to see her again, or to try, in any possible way, to get rid of these memories.

* Jealousy. Realizing that the former beloved girl can be next to another man will not give the guy a peaceful life, despite the fact that he himself could be the initiator of the breakup. A man is a possessor by nature. The very thought that someone else could be with him, even an ex-girlfriend, will make him very nervous.

Termination of the relationship
Unfortunately, not all partners realize that it is necessary to work on relations and that everyone should contribute to their strengthening. It is not enough to have mutual feelings with a boyfriend or girlfriend, it is necessary to show respect and value your partner.
No matter what anyone says, but if a man ends his relationship with a girl, he is suffering in any case, no matter how he hides it. He struggles with his experiences in the depths of himself, without showing them externally. It is not typical for men to shed tears, to show weakness.

Feelings of distress can spill out in the following manifestations:
* Alcoholism. The guy spends most of his free time in the company of people who drink alcohol. He will happily get drunk, have a good rest, so as not to mention the relationship.

* Women's company. Most men, after parting, immediately start a new relationship, they take this step in order to forget being around another young lady and show the former that everything is fine with him. Outwardly, it may seem that he is happy and satisfied, but this kind of demonstration proves the exact opposite: the guy is very unwell, he is overcome by longing for the past. Constant change of partners, intimate affairs, all this to support one's own self-esteem and distract from sadness and longing.

When analyzing whether there is a difference in the experiences of men and women after a breakup, the conclusion is suggested that everything depends on the depth of their true feelings. The type of man affects only his behavior.

Ms. Intrigue 🔥