A happy family is the hard work of two people.
What are relationships based on?
On feelings. Love, respect, and affection - these are the feelings that make a couple stay together. If people are indifferent to each other, then their family unit will not work out. Sometimes feelings change. Love turns into hate, respect turns into contempt. But people never remain indifferent in a relationship. Feelings can be killed or made even stronger. All this depends on both partners;
Depends on upbringing. If a child grew up in a strong family, where the father loved and respected the mother, then he will grow up to be just as caring and gentle. And, on the contrary, if he was brought up in a dysfunctional family, drunkenness and fights passed before his eyes, he will most likely choose the same scenario of behavior when he gets married;
Experience matters a lot. If a woman lived with a tyrant man, she will subconsciously look for the same qualities in her current partner, despite his good attitude towards her. And if a guy broke up with a sweet, caring girl, he will not immediately be able to see the lying and malicious nature of his new friend. Lack of experience also negatively affects relationships. It will be quite difficult to understand the new partner, you will have to learn to give in and defend your opinion.
A strong relationship is based on a mutual desire to be together. Lovers adapt to each other, find compromises, avoid sharp corners. And this work gives positive results and helps to live together for many years.