Shyness: how to overcome?
Group classes help to get rid of uncertainty, and they can be very different. You can enroll in a dance club or a speaking club for learning foreign languages. Every day you need to try to communicate more and more with new people. For example, you can ask a passerby what time it is or clarify the address, say something to the coffee seller, and so on. Gradually, you will feel ease in communicating with strangers.

With shyness in talking with girls in real life, psychologists also recommend immersing yourself in virtual communication. What does it give? You do not see the interlocutor and his reaction, if you suddenly wrote something wrong. Moreover, if you do not want to, you will never go to a real meeting. During virtual communication, you will gradually develop the necessary skills and overcome all internal barriers.

Self-confidence is the main quality
Self-confidence is easily felt by others, because it is something that comes from within. Most girls prefer confident guys because they feel safe around them. Basic knowledge of this important issue, as well as daily work on yourself, will allow you to become more courageous and decisive.

The first thing to do in dealing with insecurity is to stop comparing yourself to others. After all, there will always be those who are stronger, more beautiful and talented than you. It is important to remember that you are the only one in the whole world. Analyze all your achievements, accept yourself and love. Surely something happened in your life that you can be proud of. Stop thinking about how you impress others, just set goals for yourself and achieve them.

Expert opinion: Don't expect her to make the first move. Be a man and approach her with confidence and a smile. — David DeAngelo, author of books on dating and relationships.

Acquaintance: where to start?
To begin with, you should ask yourself where exactly you want to meet a girl, and only then begin the practical part. Psychologists recommend starting with the bounce collection exercise. Its essence is to tune in to failures when meeting girls. For example, if you collect a dozen refusals in an evening, then you will thus set yourself up for them and will no longer be afraid that they will suddenly refuse you and become much more confident.

What to talk about with a girl when meeting?
The most reliable way to meet a girl is to choose the right topic for conversation. The psychology of communicating with girls is not as complicated as it might seem at first. One thing is clear: girls love talkative and sociable guys more than silent guys. In order not to be bored when meeting, to get to know each other better, to get closer, there are many topics for conversation.
For example, interests, entertainment and hobbies. A good topic is dreams and plans for the future. Another is family, children, friends.During the conversation, be extremely correct, watch the reaction of the interlocutor. If you see that the topic you have chosen is uninteresting or unpleasant for the girl, take the conversation in a different direction, change the topic. You should not even try to seem very smart - the girl will immediately figure you out and resign. Just be yourself, show interest, and yes, compliment her.
How to end an acquaintance?
Completion of acquaintance depends on the impression and it can be done in different ways. If you like a girl, you understand that you want to know her more, then just ask for her contacts. Do not be upset if the girl did not give you a phone number, but only gave you a nickname on Instagram. It’s just that for many young people today, exchanging data from social networks is much easier than phone numbers. If you are really interested in a girl, then it is quite possible that you will have the coveted number very soon.

There are those who consider such an end to an acquaintance to be banal. In this case, you can invite the girl to the nearest cafe and arrange the next meeting there. Girls like it when people show interest in them. Do it and get a response.
Dating a girl on a dating site
Dating sites are Internet resources where people are gathered who are very interested in communication in order to find a soul mate. Of course, a lot of scammers register here, so in order to avoid it, you should follow some rules.

Be careful with newbies.
Choose the right sites. Read forums, analyze user reviews.
Be responsible when filling out your profile (selection of a photo, interests, personal information).
Communicate respectfully and correctly.
After some time after the start of communication, you can offer the girl video communication. If everything goes well, then the next step is a real meeting and the possible beginning of a relationship.

Now in social networks, finding your love is difficult, but possible. The problem is that giving a really good compliment without real social contact is quite problematic.

And women are attracted by words and deeds. Relationships usually start with mutual understanding. Therefore, follow the above tips, and they will help you master the art of dating and find your mate.
I hope I was able to answer all your questions. Thank you for your attention Lily