The purpose of the relationship determines its meaning. We talked about the meaning of relationships above, now let's talk about what goal you can pursue by building relationships with different people and how the psychology of relationships can help you in this.

For someone, a relationship with other people, and in particular with the opposite sex, is a desire to get what is yours without giving anything in return, and for someone it is a mutually beneficial exchange, when people help each other to meet different needs, when they are useful to each other. Well, someone wants to maintain normal, friendly relations with other people, without any obligations, so to speak, for the sake of the soul, that is, to satisfy spiritual needs, to be more precise.

Now let's talk about the ability to build successful relationships with people, which you and I can well call an art. Under the art of relations, I mean, in addition to everything else, about which a lot has been written and said, the understanding of people's ability to make concessions to each other when necessary. And for this you need to be able to tame your Ego and tame your selfishness. Most relationships come to a dead end only because no one wants to give in, everyone stands his ground, everyone considers himself absolutely right and does not want to sacrifice anything for the sake of relationships with other people, including his truth.

In general, the relationship between a man and a woman is a rather subtle form of cooperation, and where it is subtle, it often breaks down. Such relations require from people, as I said above, the ability to yield, the ability to negotiate, the ability to be useful to each other. And many men and women see in their relationship with each other an opportunity to make only their lives better, they do not take into account and therefore do not take into account the interests of their partner and live according to the principle - it's me or me. Well, you can't, agree, because we are human beings, intelligent beings, we need to rely not on force in our relations with each other, but on common sense.

It is still very common to hear that the relationship between a man and a woman is based on their sexual attraction to each other. In general, this is correct, but only partially, from the point of view of physiology. We have a need for intimacy with the opposite sex, and we seek to satisfy it, so we show interest in the opposite sex. But you and I are primarily talking about psychology, about the secrets of our mysterious soul. And our soul needs not only physical, but also spiritual pleasure.

Mrs. Intrigue 🔥