1. Rudeness. In no case should you be rude, much less insult a woman. Phrases like "hey, you!", whistling do not color the man himself in the first place. Some are not limited to this and try to use force. No sane woman would want to meet such an ignoramus. Forget jargon and foul language. Those expressions that you use in your usual company may not please a woman.

2. Shyness is the "favorite" male mistake. Subconsciously, some men are afraid to meet women through a possible rejection. Your tension is very palpable. And the woman will be nervous. Or immediately closed from communication. Find common interests, move the conversation to deeper topics. Silence also strains the girl.

3. Banality. Women don't like men who look alike. They like the ones that have something special. So give them that. If you can’t make an acquaintance “out of the blue”, prepare an original template that will allow you to start an acquaintance and set the girl on a positive wave. There are a lot of sites on the Internet where you can find such blanks.

4. Interrogation. Acquaintance should not be turned into an interrogation. You are not a spy who wants to find out secret information. Topics at the first communication should be abstract (cinema, music, theater). Let her say what she wants to say.

5. The desire to please. Trying to adjust to fictitious ideals, men often forget about their essence. It’s not worth telling what a cool car and a chic apartment you have, especially if you don’t have them. With all these antics, you lose your "I" first of all. And having chosen a behavior model that is not characteristic of you, there is a great chance not to master it or not to guess at all with the taste of a particular lady. Show your pluses with behavior: open the door, skip ahead, help get dressed. These are trifles, but it is their women who notice.
I hope that now it will be easier for you to get acquainted
Lady Anna