Why is communication necessary?
A little-known fact: if a person is isolated from society for a long time, he will begin to degrade. There will be changes in the psyche. Man is a herd creature, and we cannot live and develop normally without communication and interaction.
1. A person receives confirmation of his "self" from others. Identification of the individual takes place. This does not seem significant to the conscious mind, but it is very important to the subconscious mind. We look in others like a mirror, and they show us who we are.
2. Communication allows you to compare yourself with others. We receive an assessment of our qualities, actions and deeds. This is how a person establishes a framework for himself - moral barriers.
3. We receive approval, sympathy and support as confirmation that our feelings are correct and justified. When people like us tell us that they felt the same way in a similar situation, it becomes easier to survive a stressful situation.
4. A person feels satisfaction when he shares his feelings with others. Joy will not be complete if there is no one around who can rejoice for you. And grief is even more difficult to experience alone. This is also a property of the psyche: to consult, to share.
Communication allows us to meet important needs that cannot be met alone.
Let's consider them in more detail:
Sharing emotions
It is much more pleasant to go somewhere in good company than alone. By sharing joy with others, we increase the pleasure of what is happening. There is an exchange of emotions.
In the company, we can joke, goof off, sing songs, tell stories, play games, dance, comment on what is happening and get an appropriate reaction.
Information exchange
We can get together to solve some issue.
Hold a brainstorm, look for a joint solution to the problem, clarify what we don't understand. We can learn from each other, share our experiences or, conversely, ask for help with advice.
Support
Doing something new together is much easier than deciding to do it alone. Even the simple presence of a supportive person gives us strength.
When we talk about what is important to us, and the other person agrees, we feel that we are understood.
Interaction with other people is not always pleasant.
Sometimes we share feelings, and the other person cannot share them with us.
We can argue to the point of hoarseness and break up without deciding anything.
We can confide in someone and be deeply hurt by the devalued response to our feelings.
It is in our hands to choose those with whom we want to communicate more and more deeply, and from whom we will stay away.
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