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How to get a guy out of the friend zone — its signs and tips
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Signs of a friend zone for a boy and a girl are common.
How to understand that you are in the friend zone:

* you are presented to others as a friend, they address you as a friend ("everyone has a friend like you", "I am a guy like you", etc.);
* you are told too many details about your personal life;
* you are not invited or very rarely invited to evening walks, but at the same time they talk to you a lot during the day;
* there is almost always a third party at your meetings;
* you have seen your opponent in any form and light (perhaps you are consulted "what to wear to impress him/her");

* your opponent is very restrained in physical contacts or, on the contrary, behaves extremely loosely towards you (in romantic relationships, physical touches differ in sensuality, caution or "accidental");
* sometimes you sleep in the same bed without any sexual implication.
Pay attention! Being in the friendship zone does not exclude the possibility of sexual relations. Some men and women believe that sex is not an obstacle to friendship.
Is it possible to leave the friend zone?

Can a guy or a girl leave the friend zone?

Psychologists and those who have personally learned what a friend zone is do not have an exact answer to this question. However, it is known that some people succeeded.
Here's what you can do to get out of the friend zone (advice from psychologists and recommendations from those who have left the friend zone):

1. Make it clear that you are not ready to be just a friend. Speak directly about your feelings, stop being convenient and always available.
2. Start actively meeting people of the opposite sex and tell your "friend" about it.
3. Develop comprehensively. But it is important not to make yourself the one who supposedly likes the object of sympathy, but to reveal your potential, gain self-confidence.

It should be understood that no matter how the attempt to leave the friendzone ends, it will end the ambiguity and uncertainty of the situation in it. Even ending the relationship will be a better option than unjustified hopes, constant doubts and emotional torment.

4 cool movies about the friend zone They say that the brightest romantic love stories grew out of friendship. Maybe staying in the friend zone for a while isn't so bad? I suggest you watch a selection of films about the friend zone, where love stories began precisely with friendship.

Spider-Man (Spider-Man) 2002, directed by Sam Raimi
Friends with Benefits, 2011, directed by Will Gluck
Love, Rosie (Love, Rosie) 2014, directed by Christian Ditter
It's good to be quiet (The Perks of Being a Wallflower) 2012, directed by Steven Chbosky

Write which movie you liked more)

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