Hello dear gentlemen !
this note will be devoted only to men, but not for everyone. I could call it as “ Letter to Players”. Serious men will understand me, but persons whom this is addressed too will say I am wrong. Okay, let’s start.

I read last blog entries, articles, watch news and have a question- Dear men, when did you became polygamous?! what’s wrong with you? I understand but never support modern tendency to prove man’s masculinity by speaking with women like in shop,

Let’s go to subject. “ I wanted to meet with 2 ladies in Kiev”. Hm, you even don’t hide fact you have few women who doesn’t know about each other. It’s a cheating - for woman it looks like that. if you say I am wrong, it means your own thoughts are more important than love.

Imagine that YOUR woman suddenly writes you “ honey, I am in your country , but in another city”- what will you think ? Sure, she is with another man because no one person don’t “ suddenly” overcome thousand kilometers))
I have never heard from woman - “if you are serious, do something.. “. but I read this words almost in every letter from man when I was searched! Thanks God I found what I was looking for. so, dear ladies - if man writes you “ Prove me your love me, or prove me you are serious” - most of all you are not special for him. he is just testing you.

If you want to have “ Visit to Ukraine” - find a guide who will show you a places and sights. For women exist HUGE difference - are you coming to woman( not to WOMEN), or you are going to Ukraine? it’s not place to find penpal friend of to have “few nights stand “.

After my previous blog entry one man wrote me a letter - “you, women need only money from us, foreigners. You must write your price in your profile!”
My answer - My dear friend, but I have doubts I need such friends. If we women do it, instead prove there will be one word- Fidelity. Or Commitment. or even worse - even man’s opinion will be like that , much women will leave a site and you will write there about “ bad not serious woman”.

Dear friends, I before thinking about my words, ask yourself a question - “may be it’s NOT about me? “ Most of all it is not about you, because much people are serious as my beloved one shown to me. Do remember - love is like life: no guarantees, high risks, much difficulties, fears and problems, but just save humanity and love each other. Women - treat men like you treat your Father. Men - treat women like you would like your daughters can be treated .

With ONLY warm and positive wishes
Irina