We are ashamed of our feelings, our bodies, our thoughts, we hide them from prying eyes so that no one sees or recognizes. To harbor resentment, to contain excitement, to hide fear, to suppress anger - to undermine yourself from the inside instead of gently expressing feelings at the very beginning of relationships and stories. But, after all, a person hides not only all this, but also love, compassion, tenderness, kindness. Warm feelings are even more difficult to express than aggressive ones. For some reason, there is a stereotype that if you show attention to another person, then he will definitely sit on his neck. Maybe he will sit down, but then this is not your person.

If you say warm words to a child and hug more often, will he definitely grow up to be a capricious egoist? No, just with such communication, he will grow up as a self-confident person, able to love. How many happy stories in the world have not happened due to the fact that two people love each other, but no one dares to take the first step and confess their feelings.

How many women have lost the feeling of tenderness, because it's cooler to be strong and independent. How many men have ceased to show warm signs of attention and beautifully look after, embarrassed to seem romantic or to be rejected. There are no guarantees. Everything can be! Love is indeed the biggest risk we can take - allowing ourselves to become happy and/or strong.

Share your tender feelings with the people you want to dedicate warm words to, and, of course, be happy!

With love, your Olya❤️