Hi everybody! Steve here!
For a while now, I have been reading the blogs of both the Men and Ladies here and I’ve noticed, there seems to be a lot of confusion on varying subjects! Ring fingers, Age Differences, Communication, Commitment, Responsibility, etc and varying views on the costs of this and that!

For the men on this site… Let me ask you and then honestly ask yourself!!! ..... Where are you now in your life? What is your expectations of being here? Are you really ready for the commitment and responsibility of a long-distance relationship and all it entails? Are you prepared to do what is necessary to make this relationship work? Do you truly understand the ladies on this site… Why they look for a man from the West? Their lives, hardships, struggles, culture, even superstitions and their beliefs?

Basically, is your “Mind-set” (Are you in the right place) at this stage of your lives, accepting the undertaking of such a huge and life-changing event? Not only for you, but for your future beloved, partner, wife and/or new family (She may already have a child or children)!!!

Unfortunately, my main experiences are of Ukraine and the ladies there. But, the ladies from Eastern Europe, I have been told, and also after having dated or met some of them, are basically identical in every way when it comes to love, family, relationships, struggles, cultures, customs, etc. So please!... Gentlemen (Because that’s who we all are inside of us. Gentlemen!) Please show the Respect, Sincerity, Trust and Openness all women deserve! Plus, remember also, that it is not only you that will suddenly, at some point, feel the risks in what you do. It goes both ways, so please understand this.

OFFER NO FALSE PROMISES, FALSE HOPES, PAIN OR TEARS! JUST BE YOURSELF AND UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES, SHOULD YOU BE DISHONEST WITH BOTH YOUR LADY AND YOURSELF!!!

Firstly let me apologise for such a long “First” blog lol. If you were to let me prattle on, it would probably take days to read hahaha.

Secondly, I would like to thank the ladies who have blogged here also. Not only are they very beautiful and Intelligent girls, but also very wise too! Most men on hear would agree with me when I say “Well done and keep blogging, because we need your help, wisdom and insights, if we are to succeed.”

I will leave you with…..

When in Ukraine (And also here on this site), I have been asked “What is family for me?” What does it mean for me? How do you see both the male and female roles in a relationship? I have to say, that at first I found it hard to explain and put into words (And believe me fellas, when I say this could be a deal breaker). But then one girl in an interview I have seen on the internet, with another dating company, blew my mind for the simple fact that I had never been able to find the correct words to use, until I listened to her and she said exactly what I wanted to say and how I was feeling for a very long time!

Your thoughts?