Thanks to you all, women and girls on this site, which has provided a wide range of experience in home life, I also have something and maybe this will be of little help, for those who believe in god.

1. First, a husband must treat his wife well and a lot of patience and gracefully in a deal, especially if he is still young.
2. Second, differences in environment and conditions where the husband or wife grew very influential in the formation of diverse tastes, behavior, and attitudes respectively. It is the obligation of every couple (couples) to understand this situation and trying to find out and get to know others who become his life partner. They also need to know all things related to life situations that affect their partner so that they can go forward and realize harmony.
3. Third, call your wife by the name he liked, ask your wife about the name he likes. The wife should do the same thing that called him as he liked.
4. Fourth, basically, human beings love to be praised, and this included the need (nature). Husband and wife should often praise, and vice versa. Praising the pair can do in front of their parents or relatives to mention its virtues. For example, by praising her cooking tasty or something. The same thing can be done to children.
5. Fifth, love harmony pins Among married couples are satisfied with the attitude that there are or were satisfied with the infrastructure available live. Still sustainability spoiled attitude, life habits convenience, wasteful, and dissipate in childhood or adolescence, including one of the factors that trigger conflict couples. Such an attitude is contrary to maturity that demands a realistic outlook on life. Things pulp and glamor that heralded true media will not create happiness. True happiness will only emanates from the deepest heart and soul and not depart from the aspects of material actually trigger gaps and conflicts.
6. Sixth, Every month, schedule a time to go alone (date) with his wife that he was not stuffy constantly being at home.
7. Seventh, this is the key to happiness of domestic life is not possible nil from a misunderstanding. If you make a mistake, then the thing to do is rush to apologize, admit it, and promised not to repeat them in the future. The attitude by no means degrading the status and self-esteem. It would encourage others to respect, trust, and forgive you.
8. Eighth, do not ever regret the decision that has been made regarding the wedding. Disharmony could have started from a trivial question. If remorse to go on, there is a possibility of disharmony lead to divorce. Therefore, let's face the fact that we are currently facing. Do not run away from the problem by looking back or other individuals outside our spouse. This will open the door breakdown of marriage.
9. Ninth, include sakralitas menage, One of the most major foothold in the menage is their obedience to God. If the calculated materially, menage was tiring and it's where the value of the reward God has promised. When the issue barely see the tip of the base, return it to the owner that all the problems, God. Pair taste good thought to God. Stare at the wisdom behind the problem. Insha Allah, there is goodness of all the problems we face. Do approach to God. Do not be bored with prayer. Could be, could be a tough problem feels light and automatically solution will be in sight. Problems households would only be understood by the husband or wife who undergo marriage. Severity of domestic conflict depends on the people who are involved in these issues.

About to refrain I went out of the country, is the length of time to permit maintenance and vacationed so long. we know not a minute to take care of the document abroad, especially with my status as an officer in the military environment is not easy. Let alone to go abroad, to get out of town only requires an official permit. Yeah that's the reason I am not a cost issue.