1. You rarely get attentions.
And you enthusiastically accept even the smallest manifestations of affection, which in other circumstances would not have been given much importance. This happens because of emotional “hunger”, and this situation is called “bredcrambing”. This is a game of feelings, when a person periodically gives minimal attentions, which are enough to keep you hooked, but not enough to satisfy your needs in a relationship.

Every time such a partner writes a message or calls for a meeting, you may think: “Here it is, finally they pay attention to me.” But the next moment he just disappears and ignores you again.

Remember that if someone is truly interested in you and your relationship, you will definitely receive more than one message a week or a "light" in the story.

2. You are the initiator of communication
Since communication with an emotionally unavailable person is inconsistent and inconsistent, you can react to any message from him as if you won the lottery. Even if it's just a "hello". But let's be honest: you clearly deserve better and don't deserve to dwell on that lonely "hello".

You may also notice that your attempts to start a conversation quickly fizzle out, because the interlocutor gives monosyllabic answers. When we are infatuated with someone, we easily make up excuses for why this happens and believe that it has nothing to do with us personally. In fact, everything is extremely simple: if someone wants to communicate with you, he will probably do so.

3. You give up your plans for dates.
An emotionally unavailable person often seems "very busy" and only offers to see you spontaneously, without warning, without discussing plans with you in advance. And you drop everything and immediately run to such meetings or adjust your schedule to the schedule of a guy or a girl in the hope that this will allow you to spend more time together. But spontaneity is a wake-up call that can mean that you are just an "alternate airfield".

4. You can’t understand a person and changes in his mood in any way.
He does not reveal enough information about himself and seems to be a mysterious person, which adds spice to the relationship. Some mystery can be harmless and intriguing, but if you know you'll never get to that "secret" and don't know how the person feels about you, the relationship can turn into an unpleasant emotional rollercoaster ride.

It is likely that a person himself does not understand what he wants and what he feels. But if you take your time to understand it, it won't help anyone. Better to step aside and let him figure things out on his own. If he refuses a relationship with you, this is only his problem.

5. You imagine a life together, but your dreams seem unrealistic.
While you have not yet taken a firm place in a person's life, you can spend a lot of time dreaming about the moment when he will finally choose you. But these fantasies are probably rather vague and confusing, because nothing really happens.

There is nothing wrong with dreams, but you should not associate them with a person who from time to time gives you hope for a joint future, and then takes it away. Instead of imagining unrealistic scenarios and getting frustrated that they are unlikely to come true, switch your energy to planning for a realistic future. And it doesn't matter if this person is a part of it or not.

6. You keep asking someone to help you decipher a person's behavior.
Since you cannot understand what the meaning of his actions is and why they do not always correspond to his words, you can send screenshots of correspondence to friends and relatives asking: “What do you think this means?” When a person's responses range from enthusiastic to indifferent, any little thing allows for many interpretations. All this is very exhausting.

If you have to analyze every word or interaction to gain confidence in anything, it sounds like the person is not ready or willing to be honest with you and give you their time. Perhaps your time would be better given to someone else who won't make you wonder if he needs you or not.
Love and be loved Lady Anna