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My grandmother gave me advice
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Never leave home in anger... buy a pack of chocolate chip cookies and eat them all before returning to your spouse. Remember that sweetness smooths out all differences.

It is important to have common interests, but it is even better to have your own hobbies. Find something you like and don't be afraid to develop as a person. If the partner is happy himself, then the marriage will shine brighter!

Give up the idea that the spouse should be the other half. Both partners are whole and unique personalities, and this partnership should be built on mutual respect and support, not on dependence.

Remember that no one is perfect, and this applies to everyone. Sometimes laughter and jokes can help defuse tension, and sometimes - just accept your own shortcomings with humor.

Never stop flirting! Even after many years together, each of them should feel desirable and attractive. Constant attention and tenderness are the keys to a passionate marriage.

Don't forget about the importance of communication. Be open to each other and talk about your expectations and needs. If you don't tell, then the partner won't be able to guess!

Use humor to defuse conflict situations. Learn to laugh at yourself and make each other laugh. Laughter is the best cure for seriousness.

Never forget about romance. Come up with unexpected surprises, give flowers, arrange romantic dates. Romance is what keeps the spark of love bright and hot.

Try to solve problems and overcome difficulties together. Together you are stronger! Do not forget that marriage is a team, and only together you can overcome all difficulties.

Finally, don't forget the "blanket folding" process. Imagine that marriage is a big and cozy blanket. If one is cold and the other is hot, find a compromise so that both feel comfortable and cozy.

I hope these funny and useful tips from my grandmother will help everyone to create a happy and successful marriage. Remember that every marriage is unique, and we ourselves have to look for our own "secrets".

I wish you all the best and love!

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