The expert assures that partners need to define time limits. Of course, this is quite difficult in a war, when you don’t know what will happen tomorrow and when the hostilities will end.
However, this is necessary so as not to increase the level of stress. Gotta get rid of the questions the next time we meet. Because the uncertainty will be very tiring for both.
As an example, Ilya Poludenny cites the case when one person goes on a business trip. Then the deadline is clearly defined and this helps not to exhaust your resources earlier than necessary, and not be distracted by the question of when it will end. Then the couple can focus on their relationship and feelings.
There is a difference when you do not know where you are swimming in the sea, and when you see the shore. This greatly changes the situation.
You can also come up with certain rituals and build a system to see each other. Thus, long-distance relationships become more viable and will be able to live even longer than it could be necessary.
At the same time, long-distance relationships with an indefinite duration have the potential to be difficult because you don't know how they will end and when it will be.
They believe that everything is possible, even the creators of mobile applications. They also help lovers who find themselves in different parts of the world.