Dear gentlemen!
Life without love is not life, it’s mere existence; it’s impossible to live without love, because a person was given a soul in order to love. The loneliest place on the Earth is a heart of the person without love. For many people love is everything, it gives them forces to go further, to achieve something, to begin and finish a day with a smile and good mood. It is a passionate desire, continuous thirst to hear a voice, to feel a touch of their loved ones. I am convinced that love includes many things: belief, faith, help, enthusiasm, mutual trust and understanding. Love is not just about being a partner, it is being a loyal friend, the one who will always watch your back, take care of you and hears you out. Love is two souls, but the same thoughts, it is two hearts, which are beating as a one. That is why we are all here, in search of our LOVE!
I believe that you all heard about the Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” You all come to this site searching for your love, for a partner, for a girlfriend or a wife. You start relationships with basics – introducing yourself and then getting to know each other better. You move on further making friends with a girl, and only then you hint at more romantic relationships. You exchange letters, talk in chat… everything goes smoothly. And then, something happens. Something stops the relationships, which are still fragile. The relationships, which still need to be worked on. They are like a new born flower, which needs to be watered and taken to the sun. And in this very moment, when the girl needs you so much, you LEAVE her.
You find another girl on the site, who is more interesting to you or you need to leave for a business trip. Either way, you leave the girl who you have been corresponding with. She is there, waiting for you in chat, writing you letters and hoping you will read and reply to them. She is a real person, far away from you, but still a REAL one. Don’t you remember a Golden Rule? What if she suddenly stopped replying to you? Wouldn’t it be offensive to you? Wouldn’t you be worried if something happened to her?
Step into her shoes. She really wants to know your honest answer. If you have a business trip and won’t be able to reply to her – tell her so. If you have found a girl who suits you better and you don’t wish to correspond with this lady – be honest and say this. Everybody wants honesty.
You want a LADY? So be a GENTLEMAN, the one you really are! Show it not only in your words, but in your deeds as well. Don’t be indifferent to a girl who is hoping to hear from you, who is craving to meet you in real and build relationships. It is not so difficult to drop a few lines to show HER that you really care, right?