Ladies,

I am not oblivious to the fact you are all on this site to find "love", but it seems to elude a lot of you that some men here are not players, cheaters, or fake! I think most here are looking for the same as you are. I came here to find my soul mate and the "only" woman for me. I will not speak for other men, but I wish you all would not jump to such conclusions about men when they do not reply to your letters or answer you in chat. Do you stop to think that seeing some of us men here so often that we are in fact very dedicated and devoted to one very special lady here?
I am an old fashioned man and for a long time it bothered me to see so many women here writing me and thinking I was free. I did post in my profile that I have found my true love and only come here to be with her. I was taught that to not answer a lady was bad manners, but here on this site to do so is not reasonable. And besides to answer any other lady here is not respecting or honoring my devotion to a very special woman who has captured my heart.
So before you jump to the conclusion I am fake, a player, or only here for fun, take the time to consider the truth! I am here to share my life, love, future, and happiness with only "one" woman! I understand you are looking for love, but to approach me in such a search is only going to go unanswered. I do wish you all find the happiness and love my sweet lady and I have found here. But understand I am not the man you seek. Men who are very serious about a future with a lady here do understand it takes time and a great effort for a "real" meeting with her! We understand it is not going to happen overnight and it takes a very serious commitment from both the man and lady to make it work. So please try to understand that when you get no reply from a man you write to often, it is not him being rude, it just may be him being faithful to his future bride. Do not be offended by his silence, like me he may be very serious about making the lady he loves very happy.