Emotional swing
When a person does not know how to manage their own emotions and take them under control, the partner usually suffers from this. Whether it is a woman or a man, in both cases, such behavior is detrimental to the other side - constant emotional instability cannot become a solid foundation for a trusting union, and therefore this aspect can sooner or later lead to a break.

Hushing up problems
Some women want others to be able to read their thoughts, independently build logical chains, guess and anticipate events and emotions. Unfortunately, we are all ordinary people, and men are often less empathic than their partners, so they need to be direct about everything. But some women still refuse to accept reality and live in the hope that someday their partner will see the light and realize what he is doing wrong. And while a woman silently accumulates negativity in herself until enlightenment, a man, as a rule, loses patience and leaves.

Establishing total control
Some women, in order to get an excellent result, constantly control their partner in order to be sure that he will do what he is entrusted with in the right way. Attempts to control cannot but irritate an adult, because we even try to accustom children to responsibility and independence. It is even worse when control becomes total: correspondence in social networks and instant messengers begins to be checked, a study is made of who is liked, a comment is left

Comparison with others
Every man has self-esteem, so it is very unpleasant for him to hear any comparisons in his address both with a previous partner and with other subjects little known to him - colleagues, relatives, film artists, and so on. Such comparisons do not indicate the wisdom of a woman, they are extremely offensive and may well become the reason for parting.

Trying to change a man
We all tend to strive for the ideal, and sometimes we ourselves do not reach it, but we passionately want our partner to reach it. Since he is next to us, he must correspond to our ideas about the ideal - so we think. The man, in turn, has no idea what kind of ideal we have in our heads: after all, you are together, and it seems to him that he is already good enough. But a woman wants only the best for a man, so she begins to make attempts to remake him for herself. Various methods are used: dissatisfaction, reproaches, ignoring, ridicule, scandals, and so on.

Wanting to get lost in a relationship
Another mistake that many women make is losing interest in themselves, their development and what made you an individual before starting a relationship. Such women begin to live in the interests of their husband, children, relatives, forgetting that they are individuals, and they may have their own hobbies, hobbies, realization and career. Often such dissolution in marriage ends badly - in divorce, after which the woman, of course, remembers who she is and changes a lot (for the better). But if you always remember that you are not only a wife and mother, but also a woman, you will be able to save the marriage, and at the same time yourself. In any case, in such a situation, you will already decide what outcome awaits your story.