My dear Ladies.

I often read letters from young women who have come into difficult situations when first meeting with new partners. They complain that they get letters from men demanding naked pictures. They complain that men they have known through letters turn out to be not very gentlemanly, demanding sex after a few meetings or even before that.
I would like to say that whether a couple has sex early in their relationship or not is purely a choice for them to make," them" of course means both of them.

Nobody should be pressured into sex, or put themselves in a situation where sex is expected.

So here's the problem, This is a business that benefits from having thousands of good looking women on it's pages along with their sexy profile pictures.

Ladies i will tell you this much, if the man you are talking to just wanted to see naked women on a dating site he would do that in his own country at a cost nowhere near what he pays to write to you, so you are probably safe to say that the guy is looking for himself a new wife. Think about the pictures on your profile, are they appropriate to how you want yourself to be judged by strangers? Think about what you write in your letters, if you only ever talk dirty, then dirty is what he will expect when you meet. I have had dozens of letters from women and girls telling me they are virgins, but that they know how to please a man, when clearly as virgins they do not.

I have visited Ukraine on 4 occasions, i know from experience that most women smoke cigarettes, yet only a tiny percentage of you admit that on your profile. Just a little lie you think, well perhaps so, but what else are you lying about?

I have been using this site for 3 years and have finally found the woman i was looking for, over that 3 years i had to deal with some liars and fantasists, some people i simply couldn't get along with, some people who couldn't get along with me, just a normal mix of people really, but everything would have been a lot easier if truth were a compulsory

So my advice is this, ladies if you don't want to jump into bed at the first sight of your new man, don't pretend that you do. If you don't earn your living as a stripper, don't dress like one. Be yourself, be realistic, be truthful, be happy.

Good hunting

Earnestsearch