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So you want to learn English ?
The first thing you need to know is there is many different forms of English out there.
In Great Britain did you know there is actually 17 different dialects. In the US there is 4 different dialects of English.
In Australia there is 5 different dialects as well.
That's a total of 26 different forms of English you can learn.
So what's the best English to use?
I always taught people to follow the national newscasters . Why ?
Because that is the most commonly spoken form of English in that country.
Certain areas have slang or different pronunciations of key words or phrases.
So to be clearly understood you should look for the most common way of saying those words or phrases.
I used to find it interesting when relatives from Norway would come to the US. That's when I discovered even Norwegians spoke different Norwegian in Norway. Yes they actually have 3 different languages of Norwegian.
And I would listen to their English and it was vastly different. From ours by some standards. I soon discovered this was true all over Europe as well. In many countries . How certain people in one area spoke completely different from each other. Yet it was the same language. Oh how some ways of saying a particular word or phrase could have a good or bad meaning to some. So ladies and gentlemen who are becoming involved.
Please communicate very effectively the differences.
So learning English is easiest with humor.
Then with music.
You also need to learn what people find funny in one place may not find funny in another area.
So I recommend children humor first. It's usually the safest and less risky of offending someone.
Also your in Ukraine , Russia and your moving to another country.
Start with everyday items you use. Label them and say them in that language. Then use small sentences.
Like I'm leaving for work. I need to use the bathroom .
I need something to drink. Im hungry I need to cook ______ this for dinner.

Start with simple everyday phrases that you use in your home country. Then say them in English or that countries language.
On your way to work . Cleaning your flat or home. Is a great way to learn the basics where ever you go.
Speaking English is easier than you can imagine. Your wondering how ?
Here is the golden trick.
Europeans use less mouth muscles speaking their language than native English speakers do speaking English.
It's true and hard to believe. I'm going to prove it to you now.
Every national newscaster has to go to speech class. Every major actor or actress get enrolled in speech classes to help them speak even English clearly. Or to be able to copy or mimic a accent or dialect they need to for a particular role of character they will be portraying more accurately .
So while studying English look at speech pathology.
A few examples of this I can give you.
To say words like : this, that, those, things.
Take your tongue put it between your teeth when you start saying those words and pull it back. This will give you the (th) sound correctly.
Now to say words that begin with the letter B. Boy, Bat, Ball,bring.
It's like putting on lipstick. Slightly roll your lips together as if your evenly putting on your lipstick on your lips. Then say those words.
To say words that start with the letter L.
Take the tip of your tongue to the top of the inside of your mouth behind your teeth. Then say these words.
Love, Like, Live, Lucky.

These are small examples for you to use. Now you can practice them gentlemen with your ladies.

Also children's cartoons are great as well. For many reasons. They are simple and easy. If the lady has children they can practice them together . So when your love comes to you. And if they have children all of you can have some type of solid communication.
So if the ladies son/daughter has a problem or a need you can just assist them. Instead of you having to run and get their mother to figure it out.
Especially if your out some where with them and they need to use the bathroom really bad. No accidents no problems and everyone is much happier.
Remember gentlemen and ladies who are mothers it's a complete family affair for all of you. So you both need to help the children as well.
Also the happier and easier the children adapt to their new life. The easier all your lives will be. The sooner you begin learning complete communication and your certain your both going to be together.
Start working with the entire family. Play games together , read stories , learn together and grow together for life.
Best wishes to all of you. Remember these are helpful hints.
Also gentlemen remember if your getting involved with a lady with children.
You will have a instant family that need your love as well. To love a woman with children or a child. You must love her child just as much as her. It will make your relationship grow beyond your expectations. Eastern European women are extremely family oriented. You must love her entire extended family as much as yours. Their culture is a very tight family circle. It will make your relationship soar beyond your dreams.
Best of luck
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