Love is full of possibilities, right? In our mind's eye we hold dear a celluloid rendition of our future lives. It's pure cinema- full of wonder and dynamic fluidity.
Great. That is all well and good. Have a vision - pursue it.
Now let's discuss just breaking the ice- the top layer, to see if what lies beneath is really what we imagined.
Ever met someone on the street- had a great vibe- an instantaneous connection? Now. Did you ask him to hang on while you went home and had makeup up applied with surgical precision, and donned your best gown, to wow your new partner of possibility?
Probably not. We interact. We act and react, at the speed of NOW, and second chances be damned. Our lives are lived in the moment. Planning is wonderful, but life is lived NOW.
Probably a wordy introduction to my point.
We all have expectations. Hopes. Wants. Desires. GOALS.
If we met on the street, I would likely be wearing jeans and a t shirt. Would you pass me by? Decisions last forever. That being said, let's discuss the site. If I want you to know me, and I want to know you, I ask questions, and give info. DIRECT. Not essays on the topic of the day.Be vulnerable, lest you gain nothing.
If I send a letter, I attach a photo I JUST SNAPPED- not a pre done pic on the beach in Bali. The photo is as intimate as the words that accompany it. If you aren't at the point where you feel comfortable sharing a personal (not lurid- JUST PERSONAL) photo, then maybe you need to slow down the verbiage. I want to know you. I want you to know me. This is by HONESTY, and AUTHENTICITY.
Please use this in your approach...as will I.