Here are some key points to pay attention to when building relationships to make them strong, long-lasting, and keep love alive:

1. One of the most crucial factors in healthy relationships is open, honest communication. In situations where one or both partners close off and avoid contact when problems and difficulties arise, it's hard to build something meaningful.

2. Equality between both partners. Regardless of the financial boundaries you've set, how you've divided household responsibilities or finances, the opinions, emotions, needs, and desires of each member of the union are equally important. This applies to children in families as well.

3. Respect is a crucial component of happy relationships and love. Without it, it's simply impossible to create healthy relationships. Respect should permeate all aspects of a couple's life - respecting personal boundaries, the partner's opinions, interests, desires, and even in intimacy, it should be present!

4. Freedom and independence for each partner. This isn't about open relationships without commitments; it's about recognizing that each person in a couple is an individual with their own circle of friends, hobbies, and interests. Both are adults, independent individuals, not appendages to each other.

5. The right to personal space, both literally and metaphorically. The situation where one partner wants a little time alone and the other acts as if their heart is breaking or reacts dramatically is not healthy. Every person has the right to be alone with their thoughts, and even (gasp!) not share them with anyone.

6. Support, not only during problems and difficulties but also in endeavors, aspirations, and desires.

7. No entry for outsiders! No one should interfere in or worse, disrupt, the relationship. This especially applies to close family and friends.

8. Riddles and manipulation have no place in healthy relationships. If a partner has hurt feelings, crossed boundaries, it should be communicated openly right away. The same goes for desires: if you want something from your partner, just ask.

From all the points listed above, love and relationships are built, bringing joy and pleasure to both partners. In other words, it's a continuous, ongoing process. You can't do something once and have everyone be perfectly happy and in love every day. In normal relationships, there's room for conflicts, difficulties, and crises. The key is how partners handle them. ❤️