1. Independence: In a healthy relationship, each partner has his own interests and friends outside the couple, which promotes healthy independence.

2. Trust: Dependency can arise due to lack of trust in a partner. Healthy relationships are built on mutual trust and respect.

3. Communication: It is important to discuss your feelings and expectations in a relationship. This will help resolve emerging problems and reduce dependency.

4. Personal Development: Maintain interests and goals outside of the relationship. Pursuing hobbies and achieving goals promotes personal independence.