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The psychology of love: how to explain why someone is so wonderful?
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The "Butterflies" effect in the stomach: It's not magic, it's physiology! When you're in love, your hormones work at full capacity, releasing those very same "butterflies". It's like an internal cocktail of happiness concocted by our body.

Forgetfulness: "Oh, I forgot what my boyfriend/girlfriend told me..." This is normal! Studies say that people in love can have temporary memory problems due to increased adrenaline levels. So, if it seems like you've forgotten what you said, don't worry, it's "the fault" of those very "butterflies".

Serenades and poems: Psychologists say it's a natural inclination to express your feelings. So, if someone suddenly starts composing poems or singing serenades under the windows of their significant other, know that this is just a manifestation of true love!

Quarrels and reconciliation: Why do you want peace after a quarrel? The answer is simple: after a conflict, oxytocin (the intimacy hormone) levels rise and this makes our desire to be closer to each other even stronger. Even if it feels like "never talking to him/her again" at that moment, it will probably pass soon.

Love at first sight: That moment when we see someone and immediately fall in love has a scientific explanation! It seems that the brain has time to evaluate millions of signs and conclude a "potential mate" in a fraction of a second.

Infatuation with something strange: When we are in love, we suddenly become interested in things that you didn't care about before. Who would have thought you'd start studying space or collecting stamps?

Passion for texts and calls: The answer is simple - chemistry! At the beginning of a relationship, every text or call from your loved one triggers the release of dopamine, the pleasure hormone. So if you're back to checking your phone for messages every 5 minutes, know that everyone is like that! 😄

May your "butterflies" always be with you! 💖

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