Greetings to everyone!
Today i want to ask all the men here about Ladies with kids.
What are your fears?
Of course to make relations with a lady who has kids it is always a bigger responsibility.A man should not only win her love and trust but also to find a common language with her child.
Maybe it is what bothers men the most?
But reading men's profiles here i can see the tendancy of single fathers.Which shock me to be honest!Does it really shows that women there are not ready to build families there?Maybe it is the reason why it is so popular to date girls from abroad?
Here we have reverse situation,our men aren't ready to take the responsibility for their families and they prefer just run away facing the first simple difficulties.
But let me tell you how do i see the situation,and of course your opinion about this subject is welcome!!!
Ladies who have kids and who join the site searching for a husband are more serious and they learn how to value a person itself but not his car or well-being.They are searching for a proper man who will support and work on realition with her together,as a real team.A man looking for a reliable companion will evaluate all its positive qualities, not only the presence or absence of material security, attractive appearance and steep foreign car.
Why do some men afraid of a relationship with a woman with a child
Search for a contact with the child. The relationship with a woman with a child, has its subtleties. The first step is to find a contact with the child. If a man is not set for the continuation of a serious relationship, he won't even want to strain. Such a man is much easier to find another girl, which will develop more and more simple.
Unwillingness to create a family. Failures men psychologically frightening fact of the child's existence. They are not ready for family relationships, and a woman with a child, as a rule, are not ready to continue the lungs or to the non-committal attitude. She is looking for a husband, who will be a reliable support for her and her child.
The material side of the issue. Some men scare even the idea that you have to support himself and a woman with a child. Such men are accustomed to nothing and take care not to strain once again on the search for additional sources of income to be able to provide for his family.
Also the union with a divorced woman with a child, irrespective of whether its formal registration, can be considered much more risky than similar union with a woman without children of their own. The fact is that already initially in the first embodiment, there are many more members than in traditional family.

This is the former husband of a woman, who is the father of her child, and her parents, who will help her with the upbringing of the younger member of the family as the grandparents, and, in fact, the child, who is no stranger to the men which came in connection with the divorcee. Thus, at last falls upon many different relationships, relationship, likes and dislikes, which it directly or indirectly affected in varying degrees and, sooner or later, lead to the typical for this kind of partnership consequences.
All that are just my thoughts))But maybe the reality is much more positive?
I would be happy to hear any of opinions on this subject from our dearest men here!
Maybe this would help us to find proper man for my family))
with the best regards!
Olga