Now I increasingly wonder why people who love each other break up. More and more often I hear displeased comments about their halves. I have begun to wonder, why we make a choice a partner, and then regret it. What do women want? It seems to me that we ourselves do not understand what we want.
Women require understanding of men, while it is difficult to understand themselves even for women. But at the same time we demand that they understand us, forgetting about our contradictory nature. We want equality in the workplace and in the family, but get offended when they want us to hold responsible. We prove that we are strong and independent. But at the same time we want to be considered weak and feminine. Increasingly, I notice that a woman has ceased to be the guardian of the hearth, devoting herself to anything, not family. But as a rule, women blame only her husband for a failed family life. And in fact namely woman is responsible for the happiness and warmth in the house, for "the weather" in family relationships.
It seems to me that before the search for a partner for life, it is necessary to ask, first of all, yourself: what do I want. What kind of person my man should be, what qualities he should have. But it is important to remember that nobody is perfect, and even women have shortcomings, too (this fact is a real surprise for some ladiesJ). It is important to understand, what kind of family you dream about and how you imagine yourself in this family. And do not be offended by a loved one, if after years, he did not meet your expectations - after all it is your choice, your actions. In fact, most couples are falling apart namely due to the fault of a woman who forgot her true destiny…
Dear gentlemen, thank you for the fact that, despite many difficulties with us, women, you keep loving us. You give us the opportunity to be a wife, mother, and do things we love. You are trying to understand us when we ourselves do not know what we want.
It is impossible to understand what a woman wants, as long as she did not understand it clearly. For myself, I realized (most likely, my opinion will coincide with the majority) that the woman wants love and happiness for herself and her man. And we are open to this, dear gentlemen!