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Loneliness or family
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A family is a small country that has its own laws, market relations, romance novels, patriotism and, most importantly, the desire of all family members to be extremely sincere with each other.
What is a family for?
1. To share joy and sorrow. Feel mutual support and support.
2. Create your own little world filled with harmony and love. In order to later receive peace, stability and love from this world.
3. Have intimacy. What I mean is that you don’t need to look for a partner, because he is always nearby and, with a harmonious relationship, intimacy will only be a joy.
4. Motivation for self-realization. The desire to do something for family and friends. The desire to provide for the family financially (single people often repeat: “Why do I need this, I’m alone anyway,” etc.

Why people are most often lonely
1. They just want to be free
People with this attitude find it difficult to enter into relationships that will make it to the altar. Such people “owe no one anything.” They are disgusted by any situation that limits their freedom.
2. Selfish
I am the Universe. Relationships are a mutual contribution and work of two partners. It will be difficult for selfish natures to keep a person close to them who could sacrifice himself to satisfy his needs, and not to satisfy the needs of the family.
3. I'm not the same person anymore.
As we age, we become more intolerant of certain people's actions. If at a younger age we could be more loyal to our partner, then as we grow up and gain experience, we become more demanding: “I don’t like the fact that he slurps when he eats, he shuffles his feet and doesn’t close the tube of toothpaste,” etc. .
4. They don't want commitment.
People who do not want to commit themselves also find it difficult to enter into a marriage relationship. “If I get married, then I will have to...”
5. They don't want to be responsible.
Only people who realize who they are and understand why they are doing it can afford to take responsibility for other people.
When a person lives unsure of himself, it will be difficult for him to take responsibility not only for others, but also for himself.
6. High standards “I want him to be tall, broad-shouldered, rich, smart, kind and ....” When a woman has formed an image of a man with whom she wants to be close, the slightest deviation from her standard leads to an unfulfilled relationship.
7. Unhealthy self-esteem. “I’m 50 years old, but I want a boy of about 20 years old, handsome, athletic,” or “I’m 45 years old, but I want a young, slender, smart and efficient wife.” I have outlined just a few reasons, but in reality there are many more. If you see one of the listed reasons in your loneliness, then try to deal with it. You can do this with the help of a psychologist or on your own.

I will give a few recommendations for those women who are single, not because they have their own reasons for it, but because there are simply few men nearby.
1. You can artificially increase the ratio of men to women in your life. It is enough to find a hobby where there are more men. These are any types of men's sports, recreation, etc.
2. Learning languages will also increase the opportunity to meet your soulmate. The earth is huge and there are many men on the whole planet.
3. Use the Internet and dating sites, but be careful.
4. Adequately evaluate yourself and the man with whom you want to enter into a relationship.
Remember, the family should be an oasis where partners support each other, where they can be natural and not try to play a role that is not theirs.

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