Hello all and a personal Hello to you Roger . I read your post and could not refrain from commenting . Many times I heard the phrase that beauty of soul is much more important than the outer beauty , but life is all the time trying to convince me otherwise . firstly from the personal experience I can safe to say that if i am in ordinary jeans and t-shirt without makeup and heels all i can hope for is the attention of the bus controller who wants to make sure I have a ticket :)) Besides, the way of the man that we need an external beauty , to pay attention to anything . We go to restaurants to eat the same carrots and the same piece of meat that can be prepared at home , but we are tempted by a beautifully decorated plate with a dish . We prefer to swim in a chlorinated pool instead of the pond , because the pool water looks cleaner and prettier . We buy a beautiful puppy , instead of having to pick up the dirty mongrel from the street . And we like movies with a beautiful slender actors because we don't want to see that eternal love on the stage plays an ugly people . I can cite such examples endlessly .... And the most importantly is , that the love of beauty is not our fault , God created us such way .... Returning again to the blog Mr Roger .. I can agree that when people are in love they opens up new sides of each other such as a spiritual beauty , personality and etc , but the necessarity to contemplate the beautiful woman is not going anywhere . You say you prefer to be seduced by the soul , but a beautiful lingerie is something like a seasoning for the main dish and I think it particularly will be relevant after many years of marriage . Are You disagree with me? I would like to know point of view and the rest of the men , so join and maybe i will change my mind..