Hello to all and a special Hello to you Violetta.

First a question, Why want every man's attention when you go out? That is to be answered by each girl/woman but for example. In each issue of Playboy is the centerfold and yes she definitely gets every man's attention. Now what does nearly every one of those men think at that point? Again in my opinion, they are thinking of how they would like to take her somewhere special so the whole world would know they are together and then how he would seduce her for the night or weekend. He is not thinking I want to seduce her heart and soul and make her my life partner but rather he is seducing her body for a short time of pleasure. Now when a man tries to seduce you which do you want to be seduced for a short time of pleasure or to be seduced to be his life partner.

Now much is written about the men in your country about their treatment of women. In no way will I stand up for the problems with alcohol or abuse. But if every time they go out in public and so many beautiful sexy women are tempting them that it will be a very special man that will resist that constant temptation. No it does not make it right but that temptation is there always and maybe things are not just as they should be at home. In this country if females all dressed with the short tight skirts, heels and makeup they would be a higher divorce rate. Why because it is in men's genes to procreate and again it would take a special relationship with his life partner to keep him from being tempted. Now that man is tempted but nothing can happen unless there is a willing female maybe he lies to her or maybe she thinks he may be the one that she wants to spend the rest of her life with. But the interaction that takes place has to be seen is he really serious about more than one night or is it about a lifetime. Please do not take this personally and this is just my humble opinion.

Yes I want a beautiful woman to attract my attention but at the same time imagination of what is under her clothes is a very strong way of seduction. If you go out dressed with heels, makeup and short skirt or dress are you trying to get every man's attention or are you with a man that appreciates your outer beauty that knows you are going home with him tonight and every night? Yes I want my life partner to look great when we go out and be the envy of every man but secure in knowing that she dressed that way for me not to get attention from anyone else. Do I want a partner that has shown the whole world most of her body or that has saved that for only me? That is the difference in my opinion.

A few years ago a song came out "She Does Not Know She is Beautiful". The theme of the song is about a woman walking into a crowded room and every man noticed her beauty not by what she was wearing but rather by that special aura that came from within. Maybe she was not a striking beauty but her soul showed that she was beautiful from the inside. Yes she had to be attractive but the attention came from what was inside. Maybe I am unique but that is the kind of beauty I hope to find.

Life is a series of special moments and the memories of those special moments will not be what special lingerie she was wearing, to me it will be the special feeling of the love shared that night. The look in her eyes, the way our bodies touched and felt like they were on fire and yes how excited we became making love. Yes I will appreciate her wearing that special lingerie not because of the lingerie itself but because she is doing that for us to share a special time together showing me that she wants me. That would be what makes it a special moment. Ask me what is the sexiest thing she can wear? And my answer will be wearing one of my shirts each morning with a smile on her face that comes from her body, heart and soul being happy and being in love not from her having her makeup and hair perfect. More mornings than not I will ease up behind her to hug her waist gently and ever so softly kiss her neck and tell her I love you. What happens next will depend on our mood at the time maybe it will be her turning in my arms for a very loving hugs and kisses. And sometimes that will lead to very exciting start to the day. She will know that she is beautiful and sexy to me always not by what she is wearing. Again my personal preferences

Yes I am definitely older than most but I can tell you from experience the moments remembered are those special moments not how we were dressed but our interaction. In case you wonder yes I have known true love in my life but tragedy left me alone to try to raise a young daughter and many years later I do not remember what she was wearing but rather the look in her eyes in those special moments. And I know that my soul mate is out there in this world somewhere and I hope to find her to spend always together.

I welcome all opinions male or female on this and again not meant to disrespect anyone or to let this become personal as it is only my opinion but I am sure there are other men out there that agree. Yes we love to look at the very beautiful women on this site some in very revealing clothing and yes we are intimidated to a certain extent by such beautiful women as we ask ourselves can I really make her happy forever? And some men may ask can I afford to keep her dressed the way she wants and buy her makeup. some may feel do I want to be with a girl/woman that has let the world see so much of her body. Some men are very practical and maybe selling themselves short on making a truly beautiful woman happy. No I will shy away from outer beauty but it also has to have that inner beauty for me.