Ladies,

When a man asks you to do some gesture during a video chat please understand he is not trying to embarrass or humiliate you; he is trying to confirm you are actually live and real during the video chat. Both of us, you as women and us as men, are trying to determine the seriousness of the person we interact with and hope to setup a relationship with. During the process of learning about each other and finding common interests we hopefully will communicate over the video link FB provides. The video link is fantastic and worth every dollar we pay to communicate with our future bride. Unfortunately some people try to take advantage of this and they post pre-recorded videos. A man does not want to pre-recorded video, he wants to see you, now and live. He wants to feel the connection. Plus it can be fun - ask him to do a silly gesture. This can become a share experience and build a bond. So do not be offended when ask to do something in video. It is a sign of the seriousness by the man and a respect for the desire to build a real and lasting relationship.

Best