1.KEEP CALM
Don't act like you're sixteen and don't know anything about relationships. Leave to the pioneers manipulation, hushing up problems and constant reminders of old grievances. All this turns life together into an endless series of mutual reproaches and accusations. And if you have children, it sets an extremely poor example for them of what marriage should look like. Try to control your emotions and avoid harsh statements when you are angry. It is better to calm down first and then discuss all the problems and try to find solutions. This is the only way to maintain a happy marriage.

2. ACCEPT THE PERSON AS THEY ARE
It is almost impossible to remain the same person you were at the beginning of your marriage, especially if twenty years have passed. And there’s no need: height is a sign of a healthy personality. But the traits that form the basis of character will still remain. This is why it is so important to understand even before the wedding ceremony how much you love a particular person with all his shortcomings. Focusing exclusively on the good sides is not the best idea.

3. COMPROMISE
Be prepared for the shocks and challenges that your couple may face in the future. A big mistake is to think that you know everything about relationships. Always listen to your partner and respect what matters to him. And even if you don’t agree with his opinion, try to find a compromise. Otherwise, there will be no happy marriage.

4. SHOW YOUR FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER
Someone makes coffee for their wife every morning, although they could have bought a coffee machine long ago. And someone places small notes throughout the house with words of love and support. For others, it’s generally enough to just meet them from work on time - everyone’s love language is different. Every small gesture matters. By pleasing your partner, you strengthen the bond and increase your chances of keeping your marriage happy for many years to come.

5. DON’T COMPETE WITH WHO HAS DONE AND HOW MUCH
Relationships are not the Olympics or a football match. Life rarely plays fair. You can do one thing that will weigh about the same as ten actions of the other half. And vice versa. A good partner always intuitively feels when it is better to give in and when to insist on his own. Guilt is easy to manipulate. For example, remind you of someone who constantly sits with children to get what they want. But how far will this take you? Try to focus on the good and say more words of encouragement. Appreciate the time spent together.

6. SUPPORT EACH OTHER
A happy marriage is always a partnership and great friendship. You are no longer on your own. You have the other half, whose interests and feelings you will now have to constantly think about. Take time to look at your partner with different eyes and appreciate his qualities, skills and talents. Does he like alpine skiing? Offer a joint workout. Does he like to lie in the bath for a long time? Give a set of scent bombs. And in order not to be upset that your surprise came at the wrong place, it is better to find out in advance what he will probably be happy about.