1.Maturity of the partner
This is expressed, of course, not only in external attributes: it is an internal state. A man who is already confident in himself does not need to be constantly “feeded” with confidence and energy. Maturity is manifested in various situations: in how a man behaves in everyday life, how he copes with difficult situations, what goals he sets for himself (even at an advanced age).

2.They are usually looking for a long-term relationship
Older men value serious relationships. Maybe the fact is that they are looking for reassurance that they will not be abandoned or betrayed (especially if they have already had such experience). A long-term relationship is much better than something uncertain, and mature, wise men know this better than anyone. Yes, some young men do not want commitment at all and expect only fun and pleasure from relationships; unfortunately, women have a different opinion on this matter, and it usually coincides with the opinions of older men.

3.You don’t have to wait for him to “grow” to your level
It is a known fact that boys mature much, much later than girls. Therefore, it is difficult to blame a girl for not wanting to wait until her boyfriend gets out of adolescence. It's hard to take seriously a guy who acts more like your son than an equal partner. A mature man has already left this phase and does not want to return there. Equality of minds is also an important part of relationships. So, if you have to choose between a guy who only cares about skateboarding and partying, and a partner who is mature in every way... the choice is obvious.

4. Sometimes you just fall in love
In fact, you can fall in love with anyone, and age is not a determining factor here. As they say, all ages are submissive to love, and the feelings of a 19-year-old girl for a 40-year-old man can be as strong as the feelings of another 19-year-old girl for a 19-year-old guy. Relationships are relationships; love is love. There's nothing you can do about it.

5.They are men
The terrible truth is that a woman needs, first of all, a MAN. And the attributes of a real man are everything listed in this list. We are not saying, of course, that young men are not men, but there is a difference in how mature they are from the point of view of women, compared to older and more experienced men. There are, of course, happy exceptions among young men, but it is known that exceptions only confirm the rule.