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How to save a long distance relationship
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It is important to understand that a long-distance relationship is the same connection between two loving people who are ready to do a lot for their half. But when you live in different cities or countries, there are several aspects to pay attention to.
First of all, we are talking about the lack of personal contact and common everyday life, forming intimacy that is difficult to destroy. Moreover, many couples face a situation where distance destroys trust and forces one of the partners to doubt the sincerity of the other’s feelings, which causes irritation and leads to a breakup.
In order to understand the issue in more detail, identify the main potentially dangerous points in long-distance relationships.

1.You have no one to rely on
Despite the fact that you have a partner, you cannot rely on him purely physically. Thus, you solve all worries and problems yourself. They cannot always help you with heavy bags from the store; you cannot count on timely support and care, which is sometimes so necessary in difficult situations. At the beginning of a relationship, this point is not so painful, but over time there is a desire to feel real closeness and support from your loved one.

2.Great risk of getting carried away by others
No one is immune from random and new encounters, even couples who live together. What can we say about partners who live in different cities or countries. They are in a separate risk group, since they do not have leisure time together - they spend evenings alone or in the company of friends, where they can often meet new people. Sometimes these casual meetings turn into something more serious than just flirting.

3.Different interests
Virtual communication can distort reality. Each partner has their own routine, interests and connections. Nothing brings a couple closer than common hobbies and activities, and the longer you stay away from each other, the higher the likelihood that you may lose interest in your partner or completely stop understanding each other.

 

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