We have heard these stories countless times: "She seemed so amazing in the beginning, and six months in, she turned into a controlling nightmare!" "He was so sweet in the beginning, and now he's turned into the biggest cheapskate." There is a common school of thought that it takes about some months to get to know someone fairly well, and to see multiple sides of that person. This is why it is so crucial that you take your time getting to know anyone you are interested in! It's either going to get better and better, or you will start to see cracks in the foundation. Protecting yourself by wading in slowly is a smart way to begin anything new. This is how we could protect ourselves from future mistakes, also you could see lies and honest words of the person! So, we need to communicate and ask questions, you could be free to do it as I'm open!!
Margo