Sometimes I’m reluctant, and I’m already tired of everything: children, everyday life, worries, health, work. But why did they create relationships then? Think about it, sooner or later the children will leave, you don’t meet friends very often, but your soulmate will be with you throughout your life - this is the person in whom you should invest your time and love. It’s good if you live together soul to soul , don’t quarrel over trifles, respect and appreciate each other. But there are times when family relationships are not always wonderful. There could be many reasons for this. But if you have problems in your family, this does not mean that you are not suitable for each other and you need to separate and look for another and other companions. You can run like this all your life. The beginning of a relationship is usually exciting and promising; sometimes it promises lovers more than what actually happens in an already established long-term relationship. When a relationship just begins, people expect excitement, pleasure, ease, and flight from this relationship. The couple enjoys intimacy, sexuality, love inspiration.
Protected by the short duration of a relationship, partners may be more spontaneous and open than in a longer relationship. A feeling of charm, intimacy, insight and understanding may arise already during the first meetings, but this experience will not necessarily persist during future contacts. The problem is that there is a significant discrepancy between the ability to be intimate, the ability to please and impress in short-term meetings and the ability to maintain long-term relationships in marriage.
Love is the school for which we are born. We learn, transform, nurture ourselves, allowing something to die, giving life to another, thereby revealing in ourselves this ability to love. The ability to love implies the ability to establish long-term, stable, satisfying relationships. Success in family life largely depends on how each partner can experience himself as a loving and loved person.