I will share why I was looking from my personal experience.
It's not that American women are not beautiful they are. Believe me when I say this !!! I never came looking on this area of the world if it wasn't for meeting several Russian and Ukrainain brides where I live.
Where I used to work years ago several of them were hired by that company.
Long story short they were having difficulties learning their job responsibilities . One short day I was in HR and a lady named Oksana was having problems understanding benefits. She couldn't think of how to say it in English.
Now I rarely speak Russian but I can manage. Well I picked up on her accent and started helping her by translating for her. I ended up then being her trainer and 12 other Russian speaking women they eventually hired.
I learned how they met their husbands and I was clueless about it.
Over the years I saw how great mothers they were how happy they were . And I noticed how much their husbands radically changed. I asked a few of them how they did it ? Lost weight dressed better and felt years younger. It was amazing . But what was more amazing was each man's answer! For the first time they felt truly 100% loved! None of them ever felt this way before!
It made me stop and evaluate both societies . What are the core differences that could change so many men?
I was offered many times to be set up with Russian or Ukrainian family members of them by their wives. But working two jobs, running a small business and taking care of my son was all I could do at that time.
And I remembered the growing problems Oksana and her husband had until Oksana asked me to explain her feelings.
He worked all the time. She needed more time with her husband to adjust and learn the culture.
But I studied and learned the differences between both cultures.
In the US family values are there but have eroded greatly. Men grew up with their mothers being home more often . Nowadays women are never home.
Women forgot how to be ladies and the basic fundementals of what a relationship is. Women became obsessed with careers and material things. Even local dating sites advertising makes fun of this on television and radio with cute advertisements. I can list them if needed.
Another thing is feminism kicked in huge. Women became competitive with men on every level. In the US our largest problem is we swing the pendulum to far on things and issues.
Women started getting into everything men were into and soon they started behaving like men.
Men were at first impressed by this but got to the point they hated it. Because when other men would bring their gf or wife around they couldn't be men. Rules had to change everything.
See men live a life of very strict rules .
However with most women the rules in society are blurry. Men hate that. Look at sports as a key indicator. Women have different rules then men.
Also when men want to act primitive and can't because women are around they get annoyed. A great point is men need to be men with other men . Act like Neolithic Neanderthals from time to time. The harder the women pushed to join the men the further men receded .
When men think of women they should be thinking of their number #1 example their mother ! She is the number #1 woman who placed his fundamental beliefs in him ! So when he is out searching for his wife. In the back of his mind he's thinking of how his mother behaved. In the last 30 years women in the US have so radically changed its upsetting. 95% do not wear dresses or act or talk like ladies any more. They dance and act like men which is so unattractive if your a straight man !
I think to sum it up best I will use what Russian , Ukrainian , Asian and Oprah have said the women in the US are the most spoiled and luckiest women in the world. And do not even realize it!
They have the best of everything and opportunities and the best men. Yet a 110 million say they are depressed! Oprah asked them simply why ????
Not 1 woman would comment! Oprah asked them could it be women forgot what it's like to be women here?
Most women in the US dress horrorible jeans, sweat pants , sports attire.
I prefer a feminine lady who wants to be a lady treated like one. Who loves being a woman instead of being like a man.
Who loves to make herself up no matter what. I also grew up with conservative views and defined roles in life. Because of my parents. My parents held tight to their European standards and beliefs from years ago. So I carry that same mentality as Russian and Ukrainians do. But I'm more modern in my beliefs. If you read all my blogs you will understand.
I have been familiar with Ukraine and Russia for nearly 20 years. I relate best with your customers , traditions and beliefs than I do with most American beliefs.
So when I look at Ukrainian , Russian women . I'm envious of the men there for not just having the physical beauty but also the inner beauty in their women.
It's something to be respected , appreciated and cherished ! I know men in my state think so! 55,000 Ukrainian and Russian women have moved here in 20 years . They think so highly of it they even built a Ukrainian youth camp here for their wives. So their Ukrainian wives could take them and show their children your culture traditions and beliefs . They have thousands of members at that summer camp!
If you doubt me it's in Baraboo Wisconsin google it !!!