Depends on what you choose to believe ?
If your familiar with Plato's symposium you know the legend of Zeus . How we were once a group of people who were half man half woman. Who were so powerful the Greek Gods feared us. So Zeus split us in half and scattered us all over the world. So we would be always searching for our other halves.
Then you have romance movies and romantic novels. The list is endless in searching for the true defining answer to it.
A human soul is the most powerful thing ever created. It allowed us to evolve and grow . Change our lives and environments. How we live, what we do and so many other things.
So why do we feel so lacking that we are all searching for ? Many say our other half our best friend a partner and more.
We hear token words and phrases but yet they still leave us empty.
Chemistry, attraction,spark, special feelings, butterflies and more.
Yet we all had them yet here we are still.
Lust, desire, passion, tasty food still doesn't fill that void in our lives now does it?
It gives us pleasure , relief , temporary gratification yet here we are.
Still feeling that void of emptiness.
There's a need we all have. We all want a relationship that is simple and easy. Some think being rich will make them happy if that's so why do the rich complain about that emptiness as well?
I believe when we bare our souls to the right person. We show them who we truly are inside and out is the first step in finding your soulmate!
Oh we are all worried about getting hurt. Big deal we all get hurt at some point in our lives . The beauty of being human is we get knocked down pick up ourselves and keep trying! So your heart was broken before! So has everyone else and they lived. But the most important thing is they didn't quit. They chose living instead of existing in misery!
If you truly think what a blessing you have here to find that 1 special person. To be able to be yourself not what society tells you or think you should be. 1 night here you can meet a thousands of people here. More than you could ever met through friends or a club.
I believe there truly is someone out there for everyone . You do not have to hide your thoughts ideas or opinions. In a simple profile put who you really are in life. Likes dislikes but most important be real to yourself or your doing yourself an injustice. And then your dealing with karma. If your going to lie play games remember karma doesn't need your name or know where you live to get you.
So now are you interested in discovering your soul so you can find your soulmate ?
Find your mental and emotional needs.
Find your moral compass.
Find out what your beliefs are.
Find out what is acceptable to you and what is not.
Figure our your likes and dislikes.
Then look for your preferrences. (Keep a open mind).
But most important don't forget to be yourself . And do not change to match up to someone because of looks location money gifts or religion or whatever.
Speak up be different but be you!
Your inner beauty is what is going to be the most pleasing in the end.
Looks fade, people go broke, people get hurt, or something happens. If you truly show them your inner beauty and they fall in love with you for that. They will never leave you. But be cautious and don't be a fool. Today people are so blessed in the ability to communicate with technology like this site.
Good luck on your search.
Remember donkeys wear hats and pigs can wear lipstick !
Have people explain their beliefs ideology and lives in detail . Never be afraid to be frank with them.
Find yourself that will define who you need.