Why is it so hard for people in the 21st century to find a couple and build a strong relationship?

1. We no longer have clear roles.
Roles in the family used to be very clearly defined: the man was the head of the family and the provider, the woman was the keeper of the hearth and a caring mother. A simple, clear and predictable script.
Therefore, we are increasingly faced with a complete mismatch of views, life priorities and goals.

2.The illusion of choice
Dating has long since moved online. Tens of thousands of people, of different age, social status and appearance in search of love.... And it seems to us that if something goes wrong in the relationship - easily and quickly find a replacement.
Because of this illusion, people do not try to work on relationships, falls at the first difficulties, treats the partner lightly.

3. Conflicting information
3 books write one thing, in the movies say another, well, and favorite blogger in general forgave her husband all the cheating and who to listen to! What is the right relationship model?

But still do not despair, because happiness comes to the one who is looking for it and is ready to open the door 😉

Have you encountered such a thing? If you had a similar experience, write me your story ✨