1. Look for common interests

Have you noticed that strong couples often come from friends and like-minded people? Listen to the same music, fish together, cross-stitch, grow roses. It doesn’t matter what you choose, the important thing is that it will unite you.

2. Trust each other

Does it hurt when people don't trust you? Is it pleasant to constantly suspect a loved one of deception? If this is happening in your life, it's time to either say goodbye or learn to trust.

3. Give your loved one freedom

This point follows from the previous one. Trust, forget about control, appreciate the personal space of your loved one. And your own too, so it is important not to allow your own freedom to be limited.

4. Support each other

Everyone wants to be happy for them and share their problems with them. Support your partner in new endeavors and always believe in him, just as you want him to believe in you.

5. Negotiate peace

Compromise is not a defeat, but a manifestation of wisdom. Don't be afraid to admit your partner is right. Always leaving the last word for yourself, you can remain right, but alone.

6. Tell the truth

Never lie. Otherwise, what kind of trust can we talk about? Admit your weaknesses, don't hide your passions, be yourself. You will not fall in the eyes of your loved one, but he will appreciate your sincerity.


7. Accept each other

The past cannot be corrected, a person cannot be changed. You need to either accept him or let him go to a place where he will be loved for who he is. After all, you want the same relationship.

8. Forgive each other

You can’t accumulate grievances within yourself. If you said “I forgive,” it means forgive and forget, like a bad dream. In a new quarrel, do not remind them of what has already been forgiven.

9. Communicate

Always talk about your desires, aspirations, views on the situation. Your significant other will not read your thoughts, but will understand what is said. If you are offended, don’t expect your loved one to understand, just ask them not to do that, explain that it hurts you.

10. Show love

Never be stingy with your feelings, do not hide your love. Let him feel needed, desired and loved.