1. DON'T FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE
A man does a lot of nice things for you, gives you flowers, goes with you to comedy melodramas about emancipated women and listens to detailed descriptions of “that dress that you found last week but didn’t fit.” “It’s the right size for you and the cut wasn’t quite right.” At the same time, you take it for granted and pay much more attention to the fact that he once again did not wash his mug or did not turn out his socks when putting them in the washing machine. Stop and think: why do you constantly focus on the negative and do not appreciate the positive traits of your partner at all? Don't you think that in fact the problem lies not in your lover, but in your pessimistic attitude towards life?

2.DO NOT LOSE INTEREST IN LIFE
Remember to constantly discover something new for yourself and your partner. After all, this is the only way you can avoid cooling in the relationship and maintain interest not only in each other. So forget about weekends spent in front of the TV with pizza in your hands. Instead, go learn new sports or enrich your knowledge of the history of martial arts.

3.START INVESTING IN YOURSELF
Go to an exhibition, start reading books or take a trial fencing lesson - in general, find a hobby that really excites you. Believe me, as soon as your life is filled with not only thoughts about your lover, he will immediately begin to treat you and your relationship much more attentively. And never forget the axiom - if you are interesting to yourself, then you automatically become interesting to others.

4. START TO BE INTERESTED IN HIS HOBBIES
Of course, not all girls are able to listen for hours to a man’s reasoning regarding the correct placement of the players of his favorite football team. But you must admit: at least once asking about the results of the match that just happened and finding out your lover’s opinion about the outcome of the game is not so difficult. Moreover, you cannot even imagine how much such conversations will bring you closer to your partner.

5. DON’T RUSH EVENTS
Learn to live for today and enjoy the relationships you have now. Of course, most women cannot bring themselves not to think about the future, but at least stop demanding from your man some guarantees and a “business plan” for your romance for the next five years. Representatives of the stronger half of humanity are extremely sensitive when someone begins to encroach on their freedom, especially at the initial stage of a relationship. Let him make his own decision as to whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

6. DON'T BE AFRAID OF CHANGE
If you think that even after five years of relationship your partner will be the same person you fell in love with at first sight, then you are deeply mistaken. And you yourself are no longer that naive girl. Accept the fact that people change over time. The question is how ready you are to accept these changes in your partner, taking into account the transformation of your personality as well.

7. DON’T BRING STRANGER PEOPLE INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Parents, close friends, a hairdresser, or anyone else are not the people with whom you should share details of your personal life. You are the only person capable of making decisions regarding your relationship, and the opinion of an outsider, albeit a very close one, may well lead you astray. After all, only you can know what is really going on behind closed doors, and, having adequately weighed all the pros and cons, find the optimal solution to the conflict with your lover.