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6 signs you're truly in love
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1. “I” SOUND LESS LESS IN YOUR SPEECH THAN “WE”
Look at your messages, listen to your speech (including internal speech): do you often use the pronoun “we”? If it “flies” out of you, this may indicate the emergence of a serious feeling.

2. YOU ARE READY TO SHARE
The willingness to care, to share: time, money, any resources you have is one of the first signs of real feeling. “Showing attention and the desire to help in every way or simply to please him: with care, small and big surprises, is an indicator of a future relationship. Even the most selfish among us are willing to offer support or sacrifice at any time. You may not like cooking, but you will want to bake his favorite pie, you may have a busy schedule, but you will find time to drive her to an important meeting for which she has been preparing for a long time. All these signs of attention are a sign of a healthy and happy relationship.

3. YOU CAN'T LOOK AT EACH OTHER
I can’t take my eyes off—that’s what they say about loved ones. The desire to constantly look at the object of our love is truly an indicator of our feelings. A recent experiment showed that people who are connected not only by physical attraction, but also by a close, spiritual connection, are more likely to look at each other's faces. Those who are connected by a less deep feeling, as a rule, fix their gaze on their partner’s body.

4. YOU ARE NOT AFRAID OF ADDICTION
We like to feel like we are in control of our own destiny, and the thought of becoming emotionally dependent on someone is scary for many. However, as soon as we truly fall in love, what Evgeniy Schwartz called “an ordinary miracle” happens. Inner fears and suspicions are released, and with all our hearts we want to prolong the feeling of closeness and special unity.

5. YOU OFTEN NOTICE YOUR SIMILARITY
It is impossible to predict which couple will live happily ever after and which will separate in a month. But still, psychologists note that most often deep harmonious relationships develop among partners who have a lot in common.

6. YOU CONSTANTLY MISS EACH OTHER
From the point of view of chemical reactions, the state of love activates parts of the brain in the same way as drugs, to which we quickly become accustomed.

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