You probably will think that I am weird that I am telling you about stop looking, stop searching for your love if you really want to find it?!? But it is really so. When you are trying to find that special person you completely forget about all other aspects of life which should be done on every day basis. Stop looking for your soul mate and find the missing parts of you. This may sound counterintuitive, but it’s exactly what you really need to do—to get to know and accept yourself, to heal past wounds, and to explore and develop new parts of yourself. You have to start to live your life as you want to live it. And when you will start to discover more about yourself and to follow your own path, you will start to live a life that will be meaningful to you.
Also, you have to stop trying to appeal to an imagined, potential partner. So just be yourself. You don’t need to be a particular weight or have large biceps or wear uncomfortable shoes if you don’t like them. Go to the gym only if you love it, do yoga if you love it, walk or surf or cycle if you enjoy those activities. A partner who you will be with over the long term will not make a decision about your worth based on a superficial aspect of your appearance. You will be far more attractive to your soul mate if you look like yourself when you meet them. When you meet someone you have a good connection with, allow that connection to develop and grow. If the person is a soul mate, he or she will also be into you, so if you both pay genuine attention to each other then something will develop. There is no need to play games or to try particular seduction techniques or to achieve milestones by a particular time. A successful long-term relationship is not a game. Each relationship is unique, just as each person is unique, so how your relationship unfolds will be unique too.

Nastia