1. SHE TAKES CARE OF HER APPEARANCE
Let's make a reservation right away: we are not talking about model parameters - they fall in love with both miniature skinny women and owners of luxurious forms. Compliance with the changing trends of fashion magazines also has nothing to do with it - especially since men, as a rule, do not understand anything about them. But at the same time, they are by no means blind and always notice unwashed hair, carelessly plucked eyebrows, and peeling nail polish - after which, unfortunately, it is much more difficult for them to discern your extraordinary inner world behind all this. Believe me, for a man it is not so important what collection your lipstick is from and how much your new shoes cost you - you can leave all these beauty and fashion subtleties for your friends. He wants to see a well-groomed woman who cares about how she looks in the office, at home, while walking with her baby, and in the supermarket, who likes her own reflection in the mirror and who radiates sexuality and self-confidence.

2. SHE CAN BE HAPPY
If you feel unhappy and expect that a man is about to appear in your life who can finally make you happy, you are deeply mistaken. As the famous Marie Forleo accurately noted in her book “You Are a Goddess,” a relationship is not a life preserver, and few men will like the role of a rescue psychotherapist. You can feel sorry for an unhappy woman, support her, you can have intimate conversations with her and, in extreme cases, make friends with her; but men fall in love with happy women - to make them even happier. Understand that happiness is not something that anyone can give you, it is a conscious choice, a special attitude towards life. The ability to enjoy little things and maintain harmony, despite loneliness, stress and everyday hustle and bustle, is a rare talent, but it attracts men like a magnet.

3. SHE IS NOT TRYING TO CHANGE A MAN
There is no better way to destroy a relationship than to endlessly try on the role of Pygmalion and fashion a new, improved (as it seems to us) version of a real man. Psychologists say that the maternal instinct is to blame, which sometimes does not work at the best moment and forces us to make harsh comments to our loved ones and give intrusive advice. Paradoxical advice: if you want to inspire a man to change, accept him for who he is. This requires wisdom and sometimes remarkable patience; However, oddly enough, it is next to such wise and patient women that men are more inclined to change, grow and become more successful than next to those who constantly “nag” and “kick” their lovers.

4. SHE DOESN'T TRY TO BE RIGHT
Ardently proving that we are right, we strive to demonstrate intelligence and erudition - while a man values ​​female wisdom, the ability to give in and compromise much more highly. A smart woman in a dispute will find ten arguments that can drive her interlocutor into a corner - a wise woman with a friendly smile will turn the dispute into a joke, will not be afraid to give in - and in the end will win; After all, as they say, the one who is right is not the happy one, but the one who is right is the one who is happy. So next time, before you start a heated intellectual discussion with your loved one, think about what you are betting on - intelligence or wisdom.

5. SHE CAN PRAISE
There is such a principle in pedagogy: the child strives to correspond to the words that he hears addressed to him. That is, if you constantly point out his mistakes, calling him stupid, lazy and unscrupulous, then it is precisely these qualities, as if to spite you, that he will develop in himself. And vice versa: admiration and praise can sometimes work wonders, inspiring children to make unimaginable changes. The same formula works for men: they need approval like air, even if it is a tiny hammered nail and even if they hammered it two weeks after you asked for it. Instead of being ironic out of habit, try to praise and thank your loved one, even for such an insignificant trifle. Believe me: for the sake of a woman who knows how to admire him, a man is able to move mountains.