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Rules of parental love
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1.Show love
The first thing parents should do is to show their love, do not skimp on affection and praise, and be sensitive to the child’s emotional needs. This helps develop self-regulation because when a child feels affection, he or she develops a perception of the world as a safe and pleasant place.
2.You can’t have too much love for a child.
It won't hurt your child if you tell him every day that you love him. It doesn't hurt your child to be reminded as often as possible that he is the source of your endless joy. It doesn't hurt a child to be hugged and sincerely praised for something. You should not restrain your impulses of tenderness and show coldness because you are afraid of spoiling your child with excessive attention.
3. Don't be shy about physical manifestations of your love.
Children need physical expressions of love from their parents not only in infancy, but also in childhood and adolescence. Often parents do not realize that their children need this even when they have grown up and are embarrassed by it. In other words, learn to show your love for your child without showing it off: just give him a quick kiss when he leaves for school in the morning, hug him when he returned from school, a pat on the shoulder as he leaned over the table
4. Try to understand the child's emotional needs
This does not just mean comforting a child when he cries or calming him down when he is afraid.It is necessary to carefully observe his mood and respond in a way that helps his emotional development. A child's emotional needs change as they grow older. During infancy, parents must provide the child with a sense of security and trust when the child is upset.
5. “My home is my castle”
The child needs to feel that home is a place where he can hide from the complexities of everyday life. Create an atmosphere at home that will allow your child to really relax, forget about his problems, try to reduce his stress level, make sure that there are no quarrels, disputes and emotional showdowns at home.
A child needs this island of calm after a difficult day at school, an unpleasant incident on the playground, the day when his friends betrayed him or when he quarreled with a loved one. You can't make these problems disappear, but an appropriate atmosphere at home will help your child get a little distracted.

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