If you can’t think about everything on your own, you can talk to your family, a close friend or girlfriend, and finally to a psychologist. Psychologists often reveal to us things that we do not see, so you can find out your desires and feelings this way.

In addition, do not forget that people are drawn to interesting people. And to be such a person you need to constantly develop and not stand in one place. For example, you can read new books of different genres, take up a new hobby, attend exhibitions, and other cultural events.

An active lifestyle also influences self-development. Attend various events with friends or alone, interesting festivals, other events that you have never been to, travel and spend time on your health.
Also, don't forget that people may not meet your expectations, and this is normal. If you can't remember the last time you had to meet people, here are a few things to remember:

1. People can be different, this does not mean that they are “bad”.
2. The first impression is not always pleasant.
3. Don't try to create a false impression or be someone you are not.
4. Tell your interlocutor the purpose of your acquaintance, say that you are looking for your love.
5. Don’t convince yourself that the first person you meet will become the love of your life. This may not necessarily be the case, because not everyone is lucky the first time.